As a coach’s daughter, my love for football began at a very young age. I’d like to think I was Sheryl, Coach Yoast’s daughter in Remember the Titans. She was seen cheering on the team, calling plays and penalties on the sidelines, and being louder than anyone in the stands.
Sundays weren’t just about tailgating and having fun, although we did have fun. It was our livelihood.
My dad, June Jones, has played and coached all across the country from the collegiate level (Hawaii, SMU) to the NFL (Chargers, Falcons, Lions). Being a ‘coach’s daughter’ had its perks and its downfalls.
I think the perks were obvious, but I can remember vividly in the third grade when my dad was coaching the Atlanta Falcons. I was being yelled at and bullied in school because we had lost the game the night before. What the “hard” times taught me was resilience; and how to win and lose with grace. Eventually, I learned not to respond and to understand at a very young age, people who are cruel are likely dealing with a lot of hurt.
I don’t just love football because I love the game. I love football because of the impact the game has had on our life as a family. I get to hear the inspirational and often life-changing impact my dad (among hundreds of other coaches and staff) has had in many players lives.
Football Matters is an incredible campaign because it shares inspirational backstories and the significance having a great coach can have in anyone’s lives.
When my dad was coaching/playing in the NFL, I was fairly young, and my parents did a great job of separating work / family life. It was when my dad went to coach at the University of Hawaii that I truly became aware of the significant role my dad had in these players’ lives. It was more than just a game, a job, or a paycheck. There was a family bond within the team that for some filled a void or the absence of a family in their lives.
My dad didn’t often share things with our family. I learned a lot by reading an incredible book, the comeback story of the Hawaii Warrior Football team by J David Miller.
I learned that my dad gave second chances to several players with legal problems. He gave scholarships to deserving players—who in one instance was living in their car. He refused to release a player from his scholarship because he feared for the player’s safety if he returned to his crime-infested neighborhood.
That is why I am SO incredibly excited for the launch of Football Matters. This unprecedented program celebrates the positive impact the game has had on millions of families, players, coaches, administrators, volunteers, and fans nationwide. Through Football Matters we can spotlight the many benefits that football brings to communities, schools, families and individuals, and the opportunities it provides on and off the field.
My family was built around football. I am excited to see the ripple effect that the Football Matters campaign will have in the community.
About Football Matters
The National Football Foundation (NFF) launched Football Matters to celebrate the positive impact the game has made on millions of players, coaches, administrators, volunteers, and fans nationwide. Debuting in February 2018 at www.footballmatters.com and on social media, Football Matters spotlights and explains the many benefits that football brings to communities, schools, families, and individuals and the opportunities it provides to those on and off the field and at every level. Follow them on Facebook and Instagram.
ANY OF US WHO HAVE WATCHED DAUGHTERS grow up to be strong and capable women will delight in a recent blog from Niki Jones, daughter of NFL, NCAA – and now XFL – icon June Jones.
Her work is the essence of great writing – and some good parenting, too.
Niki’s contribution to “Football Matters” – an initiative of the National Football Foundation – illustrates the life of this famous coach and his equally amazing daughter.
Throughout his storied career, June has been revered at every whistle stop – and Niki illuminates what is sometimes out of sight or hidden in the biographies of “great men” – the impact of the game, even on those not in the spotlight.
For parents raising children in the game of football, Niki herself is a beacon of hope.
At a time when our youth are consumed with technology, social media, and a sense of entitlement, we read about a humble girl who grew up in the sport and not only flourished in its ‘wilderness,’ but also relished the experience.
Today, as a strong woman and mother, Niki delivers a riveting and deeply touching perspective of the entire Jones family.
It’s been a privilege to know June Jones and his family since the early 80’s, and I’ve admired him as he measured up as a father and a man against the stark and formidable landscape that is a pro coaching career.
Some critics will doubtless think the erratic adventures that football coaches inflict upon their families is irresponsible, or just plain crazy.
But as a father, husband and coach myself, I’ve been in awe of the bold decisions June made throughout his career – and the clarity with which he made them, and the children he produced.
Thank you Niki for “keeping us up with the Joneses” – and giving us a peek into your souls.
You have poignantly demonstrated a profound truth on which we all agree – that there may be no better teacher of life itself than this sport we love.